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OPINION AND ORDER KENNETH M. KARAS, District Judge. I. Background This case involves a dispute between two parents, Manuel Jose Lozano (“Petitioner”) and Diana Lucia Montoya Alvarez (“Respondent”), regarding their five-year-old child. On November 10, 2010, Petitioner filed in this Court a Petition for Return of Child to Petitioner (the “Petition”) pursuant to the Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction, art. 2, Oct. 25, 1980, T.I.A.S. No. 11,670, 1343 U.N.T.S. 89, reprinted in 51 Fed.Reg. 10,494 (Mar. 26, 1986) (“Hague Convention” or “Convention”) and the International Child Abduction Remedies Act, 42 U.S.C. §§ 11601-11611 (2005) (“ICARA”), requesting that the Court issue an order requiring that his child be returned to London, United Kingdom, to have a British court make a custody determination. Accompanying the Petition was an Emergency Petition for Warrant in Lieu of Writ of Habeas Corpus (“Emergency Petition”). The Emergency Petition sought an order from the Court directing that the child be removed from Respondent and delivered into the temporary protective custody of Social Services while the matter was pending. In the alternative, Petitioner requested that the Court issue an order to show cause: (1) prohibiting the removal of the child from the Court’s jurisdiction; (2) requiring Respondent to post a bond; and (3) ordering Respondent to appear before the Court with all passports and travel documents for Respondent and the child. In support of the Petition, Petitioner submitted several exhibits. On November 12, 2010, the Court held an ex parte telephonic hearing with counsel for Petitioner. Following this hearing, the Court issued an order: (1) ordering Respondent to appear before the Court for a hearing on November 16, 2010; and (2) directing the United States Marshal for the Southern District of New York (“Marshal”) to (i) serve Respondent with a copy of the Court’s Order, the Petition, the Emergency Petition, and all attachments, and (ii) seize all passports and travel documents for Respondent and the child. (Dkt. No. 11.) On November 15, 2010, the Marshal served Respondent and retrieved the requested passports. On November 16, 2010, Respondent and counsel for Petitioner appeared before the Court. After the hearing, the Court issued an order stating that Respondent would not be required to post a bond and prohibiting Petitioner, or anyone acting on behalf of Petitioner except for his counsel, from contacting Respondent or the child. (Dkt. No. 5.) On November 23, 2010, counsel for Petitioner and newly obtained counsel for Respondent appeared before the Court at a telephonic conference. Although the Parties and the Court were cognizant of the need to adjudicate Hague Convention matters expeditiously, the Parties agreed to discuss a proposed schedule that would allow both sides an adequate opportunity to conduct discovery, obtain experts, and prepare for a hearing on the merits (the “Evidentiary Hearing”). On December 6, 2010, the Court agreed to the proposed schedule submitted by the Parties. (Dkt. No. 16.) The Parties submitted in limine motions and responses on January 28 and 31, and February 1 and 2, 2011, regarding certain testimony and evidentiary issues. Specifically, each Party sought to exclude the other Party’s expert report. In addition, counsel for Respondent expressed concern over revealing the identity of one proposed witness, a therapist who has treated Respondent and the child in New York. The Court held a telephonic conference on January 31, 2011, to discuss these issues. At the conference, the Parties agreed that the therapist’s name would not be disclosed and that she would be referred to throughout the proceedings as “the therapist.” The Court informed the Parties that it would rule on the motions in limine at the Evidentiary Hearing. The Court held the Evidentiary Hearing on February 2 and 3, 2011. At the hearing, the Court heard testimony from: (1) Petitioner; (2) Respondent; (3) Dr. B.J. Cling, an expert retained by Respondent for purposes of this proceeding (“Dr. Cling”); (4) a therapist who has treated Respondent and the child in New York (the “therapist”); and (5) Dr. Michael Fraser, an expert retained by Petitioner for purposes of this proceeding (“Dr. Fraser”). Petitioner testified and observed the hearing via videoconference in the London office of his counsel. At the hearing, both Parties also submitted exhibits. On February 18, 2011, both Parties submitted Post-Trial Memorandum of Law. (Dkt. Nos.32-33.) The Court held oral argument on April 28, 2011 (the “Oral Argument”) and, at its conclusion, the Court informed the Parties that it would be denying the Petition. On April 29, 2011, the Court issued an Order dismissing the Petition and entering judgement for Respondent. (Dkt. No. 39.) At the Oral Argument, the Court recited the full procedural history of this case and issued its Findings of Fact and Conclusions of Law on the record. This written opinion further sets forth the Court’s Findings of Fact and Conclusions of Law. II. Findings of Fact The Parties present vastly different accounts of their relationship and many of the events that transpired between them. As described below, the Court is unable to conclude that one party is entirely credible and truthful and the other completely incredible and untruthful. Instead, in many instances, the actual picture is somewhat murky. A. The Parties’ Relationship Petitioner and Respondent, who are both originally from Colombia, met and began dating in early 2004 in London. (Ct. Ex. 1 ¶A1.) Petitioner moved into Respondent’s flat about two or three months after they began dating. (Tr. 10.) At the time they met, Respondent was not working and received government benefits; Petitioner worked in maintenance for a tax office and also had a nighttime cleaning job. (Id. at 11-12.) The Parties never married. After the Parties moved in together, Petitioner mainly financially supported the household, while Respondent was responsible for cooking, cleaning, and taking care of their child after her birth. (Id. at 55-56, 121.) Respondent received incapacity benefits because she suffered from depression. Respondent testified that when she arrived in London, she became very depressed because she missed her family and was unable to obtain a professional job like she had in Colombia; after she resigned from the job that she did have, she was very frustrated and became more depressed, and her doctor prescribed her Prozac. (Id. at 99, 172.) Respondent took Prozac for several years, but stopped when she first became pregnant with Petitioner’s child; however, she started taking it again in 2008 before she left Petitioner. (Id. at 171-72.) Respondent received incapacity benefits from approximately 2003 until early 2006, when she did not renew the application because she “was fine” and felt she did not need to renew. (Id. at 173-74.) The Parties’ description of their relationship is dissimilar. Petitioner claims that although they had normal couple problems, generally they were “very happy together” and had a good relationship. (Id. at 13-14, 52, 58.) Although Respondent agrees that they were very happy at the beginning and describes Petitioner as charming, kind, fun, and spontaneous when she initially met him, she testified that after a month of living together, he began to treat her badly, insult her on a regular basis, and be generally very controlling. (Id. at 101-04.) Respondent describes a pattern of physical and emotional abuse. She testified that Petitioner tried to kick her in the stomach when she was pregnant, pulled her out of bed one night when she received a wrong number phone call and called her a prostitute, and raped her four times. (Id. at 109,114-17.) In addition, Respondent maintains that Petitioner repeatedly told her that she was stupid and useless and that her friends and family hated her, often told her to kill herself, and threatened to take the child away from her. (Id. at 110-11, 174.) Petitioner denies ever hitting or raping Respondent, forbidding her from speaking to her family or friends, or pushing her while she was pregnant, and testified that he never insulted, threatened, or raised his voice to Respondent. (Id. at 16-17, 59, 62-63, 72). Respondent also testified that Petitioner drank heavily and watched pornography. (Id. at 104-05.) In contrast, Petitioner testified that he did not watch pornography (id. at 62), and denied that he drank a lot or had ever been so drunk that he did not know what he was doing, although he admitted that he sometimes has drunk about three beers in an evening, (id. at 51, 75-76). In 2006, the Parties obtained a loan, in Respondent’s name, to buy a flat in Colombia, but the money was lost when it was transferred to Colombia. (Id. at 14-15.) This led to a court case which was not resolved until November 2008. (Id. at 15-16.) According to Petitioner, the Parties’ relationship started to have problems during this time. (Id. at 14-16.) Petitioner also testified that during this time he asked Respondent to find a job to help address their financial problems, but Respondent did not obtain employment. (Id. at 16, 60-61.) Respondent, however, says that she did try to find a job but Petitioner did not want her to work and that she did get a nighttime job as a cleaner between 2006 and 2008 to help pay their debts. (Id. at 105-06,168.) There is insufficient independent evidence to fully corroborate either Party’s version of events. Respondent explains that she did not tell her family or friends about the abuse because she was a very private person and she wanted her family to believe that she was still a successful person. (Id. at 103.) Respondent did testify that she told the manager of the child’s nursery about Respondent’s problems with the Petitioner — and the negative effect Respondent believed this was having on the child — and that the manager referred her to solicitors. (Id. at 122.) Respondent also testified that she reported the problems to the police but they declined to become involved in what they termed a custody issue; she also sought help from the Latino American Women’s Rights Service (“LAWRS”). (Id.) In May 2009 (when Respondent and the child were living in a shelter, which is explained infra), Respondent applied for permanent housing. In connection with this application, the manager of the child’s nursery sent an email to the shelter stating that the child had attended the nursery from July to December 2008 and that, during that period, Respondent told the manager that Petitioner “was very controlling and was emotionally abusive towards [Respondent],” including making “derogatory comments” about Respondent in front of the child and other family members and threatening to take the child away from Respondent. (RX6 at R0036.) The manager also indicated that she “often saw Respondent very upset because of the way [Petitioner] treated her.” (Id.) Respondent also requested a letter from LAWRS to support her application for permanent accommodation. (RX5 at R0034.) LAWRS submitted a letter, dated May 15, 2009, explaining that in August 2008, Respondent had contacted the organization “to report the domestic violence she was been [sic] subjected to by her then husband” and that she feared for her and her child’s safety. (Id. at R0035.) The letter states that Respondent was offered an appointment to come and see the domestic violence support and prevention worker at LAWRS, but that Respondent was unable to attend. (Id.) Respondent called LAWRS again a few weeks later to report that the situation had worsened and that she needed to move out; after the organization to which she was referred, the Latin Women’s Refuge, was unable to assist her, Respondent contacted the police who helped her find first a hotel and eventually a shelter. (Id.) After Respondent left Petitioner and took the child with her, Petitioner attempted to locate Respondent and the child through the United Kingdom court system, as explained in more detail infra. As part of these attempts, he submitted disclosure orders to, inter alia, the police station Respondent had contacted when she left. (PX1 at Petitioner000069.) The response letter submitted by the police indicates that when they interviewed Respondent in 2008, she alleged that Petitioner “had mentally abused her and may have subjected her to sexual assaults during the relationship[;] [s]he had therefore fled their home address and sought accommodation in a refuge.” (Id. at Petitioner000072.) However, the “[pjolice could not make out any offences from the evidence that [Respondent] gave and were therefore unable to pursue a criminal investigation against [Petitioner].” (Id.) When Respondent moved to New York, she was treated by the therapist who diagnosed her with post-traumatic stress disorder (“PTSD”) based on her symptoms, which included heightened startle response, hypervigilance, nightmares, tearfulness, and flashbacks. (Tr. 230-32.) The therapist testified that when she first met Respondent, Respondent was panic-stricken and worried that Petitioner was going to find and harm her and potentially the child, and she seemed in fear for her life. (Id. at 231.) PTSD is exhibited by people who experience a traumatic event; in Respondent’s case, the therapist based her diagnosis on Respondent’s statements that she: “fled her home because she had been sexually assaulted and physically and emotionally abused by her ex-partner;” had been in a shelter for domestic violence in the United Kingdom; and feared that Petitioner would find and harm her. (Id. at 232.) According to the therapist, Respondent told the therapist in their early treatment sessions that Petitioner had hit and raped her, although that information did not appear in the therapist’s formal notes until December 2010; however, the therapist explains that she often included only symptoms, and not the details of a person’s situation, in her notes for confidentiality reasons. (Id. at 240^42, 248.) The therapist denies that she did not mention the physical and sexual abuse in her notes because she felt it was unimportant; instead, she maintains that the failure to include it may have been an oversight. (Id. at 249.) The Court finds that Petitioner’s claims that he never insulted or mistreated Respondent in any manner are not credible. Although presented in a hearsay format, there is evidence from third parties that Respondent contemporaneously reported that Petitioner was emotionally abusive towards her. Additionally, it is extremely unlikely that Respondent would choose to flee her home with her child, and live in a shelter environment that she described as very unpleasant and stressful, for absolutely no reason. Moreover, the therapist’s diagnosis of Respondent with PTSD, and the therapist’s description of Respondent’s symptoms, also indicate that Respondent suffered trauma. However, there is no evidence, other than Respondent’s testimony and the testimony of the therapist and Dr. Cling based on Respondent’s self-reporting, that Petitioner physically abused or raped Respondent. Therefore, the Court cannot — and, in light of the Court’s conclusion, explained infra, that Respondent has not established that returning the child to London for a custody determination would pose a grave risk to the child, need not — make more precise findings regarding the abuse that may have occurred. B. Petitioner’s Relationship with the Child The Parties’ first pregnancy resulted in a miscarriage in October 2004, but Respondent became pregnant again in January 2005. (Tr. 107-08.) On October 21, 2005, the subject child was born in London. (Ct. Ex. 1 ¶ A3.) Petitioner and Respondent are listed as parents on the child’s birth certifícate. (Id. ¶¶ A4-5; Pet. Ex. E.) Petitioner, Respondent, and the child all lived together in London from the child’s birth until November 19, 2008. (Ct. Ex. 1 ¶ A6.) According to Petitioner, after the child was born, “everything was happiness for everyone.” (Tr. 14.) Although he was unable to spend much time with the child on weekdays because of his work schedule, Petitioner believes that he had a very good relationship with the child, and tried to spend whatever free time he had with her. (Id. at 17, 74-75.) Petitioner testified that the child laughed and was happy, but acknowledged that the child was not speaking when at the nursery. (Id. at 77-79.) In contrast, Respondent testified that while living with Petitioner, the child was very quiet and depressed, did not smile, and would have tantrums. (Id. at 120.) The child began to have a series of problems, including refusing to speak at the nursery, crying a lot, not smiling, having nightmares from which she woke up screaming, bed-wetting, and clinging to Respondent; Respondent testified that in October 2008, she spoke to the child’s doctor about these issues because she was very worried. (Id. at 127, 176.) The doctor’s records state that the child “talks, laughs and dances in front of parents[ ] but is withdrawn in the nurse[r]y”; the cause was unknown and the nursery wanted Respondent to consult a specialist. (RX1 at R0003.) However, Respondent testified that when Petitioner was not around, the child was talkative and had fun with Respondent but denied that the child laughed and talked in front of Petitioner. When showed the doctor’s notes, Respondent stated that she told the doctor the child behaved normally at home but did not specify in front of both parents. (Tr. 176-77.) In the email sent by the nursery manager in connection with Respondent’s application for permanent housing, the manager wrote that the home “environment obviously had a negative effect upon [the child] and [she] became an elective mute at the nursery ([she] chose not to speak, although [she] had the language) and became very withdrawn.” (RX6 at R0036.) The therapist testified that being withdrawn can be a symptom of trauma. (Tr. 251.) At the Evidentiary Hearing, Petitioner denied that he and Respondent often argued in front of the child, although he acknowledged that the child was sometimes present in the home during, and thus aware of, these arguments. (Id. at 71-72.) Yet, in papers Petitioner submitted in July 2009 in London in connection with his attempts to locate the child, he stated that he and Respondent “would often argue in front of the child[ ]”; however, he “always tried to avoid this so that his [child] would not be distressed.” (PX1 at Petitioner000047.) He also indicated that Respondent had mental health issues and that she would “verbally abuse [Petitioner] in front of the child and call [Petitioner] abusive names” to try and “turn the child against” Petitioner, including telling the child that Petitioner “was evil like the devil,” which “resulted in the child pointing to bad objects and calling them Daddy.” (Id.) In light of his earlier statements, Petitioner’s testimony that he and Respondent never argued in front of the child, and that he “never raise[d] [his] voice to [Respondent] in any argument that [they] had” (Tr. 72), is not credible. Yet, the Court is cognizant of the desire of the Parties to portray themselves in the best light possible and, therefore, does not infer from these statements that Petitioner is incredible with respect to all of his testimony, as Respondent has asserted. Respondent also claims that Petitioner may have inappropriately touched the child. According to Respondent, when she and the child were living in a domestic violence shelter in London after leaving the Petitioner, the child pointed to her genital area and said that Petitioner had touched her there. (Id. at 129-30.) Respondent claims that she reported this to the shelter, but was told that there was nothing she could do because she had no evidence; she did not report it to the police. (Id. at 130, 178.) Respondent also describes an incident where Petitioner’s mother told Respondent not to let Petitioner bathe the child. (Id. at 128-29.) Respondent also testified that she told the therapist about the child saying that Petitioner had touched her genitals. (Id. at 181-82.) Yet, according to the therapist, Respondent said that she did not think that Petitioner would have inappropriately touched or done anything to the child, but she did not know whether he had or not, which worried Respondent. (Id. at 242.) The child never told the therapist that Petitioner touched her but the therapist opined that the child’s actions indicated that the child was afraid of Petitioner. According to Respondent, the child has exhibited encropesis (soiling herself with a bowel movement) since the possibility of seeing Petitioner again has been raised, which the therapist explained is often a symptom of terror and trauma; the therapist has not witnessed the encropesis, but believes Respondent’s account. (Id. at 242-43.) However, in February 2010, the child also told the therapist the she missed Petitioner. (Id. at 243-44.) Respondent also told the therapist about two incidents at school where the child said that a female teacher had touched her inappropriately and that a classmate had kissed her, which led to the child being assigned to a new classroom. (Id. at 244-45; PX3 at R0108.) Respondent did not mention the possibility that Petitioner had inappropriately touched the child when Respondent relayed these incidents to the therapist. (Tr. 245-46.) For his part, Petitioner denies ever yelling at, hitting, slapping, or inappropriately touching the child. (Id. at 70.) The Court finds that there is insufficient evidence to conclude that Petitioner either sexually or otherwise physically abused the child in any manner. Respondent’s account suffers from insufficient corroborating evidence and, indeed, is inconsistent with some other evidence in the record. Given her self-interest in the matter, the Court therefore finds that there is insufficient evidence to support a finding that Petitioner sexually or otherwise abused the child. C. Respondent Leaves Petitioner with the Child In November 2008, Respondent came to New York to visit her sister Maria and attempt to gather evidence to support Respondent’s and Petitioner’s case regarding the problematic loan. (Id. at 19, 119, 167-68.) During this time, the child stayed in London with Petitioner and Petitioner’s mother who was visiting from Colombia. (Id. at 74, 168.) Petitioner claims that when he picked Respondent up at the airport upon her return, Respondent “was a completely different person” than when she left London a week earlier and she demanded that Petitioner and his mother leave their house immediately. (Id. at 20-22.) Respondent testified that when she returned from New York, Petitioner and his mother were acting very suspicious and the child was acting fearful and strange around Petitioner; Respondent became extremely scared, and decided to leave. (Id. at 134-35.) On the following day, November 19, 2008, Respondent left to bring the child to nursery school and never returned. (Tr. 22; Ct. Ex. 1 ¶ A7.) Respondent testified that she went to the police station and reported that Petitioner had been abusing her; the police asked Respondent if she wanted to have Petitioner arrested but she declined out of concern for Petitioner’s mother and, instead, asked the police to remove Petitioner from their house. (Tr. 135-36.) However, according to Respondent, when she told the police that she did not work and that Petitioner did work, the police said that they could not “do anything for [her],” but they did give her a personal alarm and helped her find a hotel. (Id. 136-37.) The next day, Petitioner saw Respondent and the child while he was driving; Respondent ran away. (Id. at 23.) Respondent testified that after seeing Petitioner in the car she filed another police report; the police did not do anything for them but sent Respondent and the child to a domestic violence shelter. (Id. at 137-39.) Petitioner testified that when he called Respondent after seeing them in the car, Respondent informed him that she had reported him to the police; however, when he went to the station, the police had no records of Petitioner. (Id. at 23-24.) Petitioner has not seen the child since. Petitioner testified that right after Respondent left, he called Respondent’s sister Gloria, who lived in London and who denied knowledge of Respondent’s whereabouts. (Id. at 23.) In December 2008, Respondent’s sister Nancy called Petitioner and told him it would be better if he stayed away from Respondent and the child if he didn’t “want trouble” or “want to be sorry.” (Id. at 25-26.) Right after that call, Petitioner received another call from Gloria regarding Respondent’s belongings and informing Petitioner that Respondent was living in a refuge and protected by the police. (Id. at 26; PX1 at Petitioner000009.) Subsequently, Petitioner’s solicitors told him to refrain from speaking with any member of Respondent’s family. (Tr. 27.) Respondent and the child resided at a shelter, Croydon Women’s Aid, from November 24, 2008, until July 3, 2009. (Ct. Ex. 1 fA8.) Before entering the shelter, Respondent was interviewed by the shelter and submitted forms and a statement describing her claims of abuse. (Tr. 139.) Respondent also signed a license agreement upon entering the shelter. (RX2.) The agreement states that the objective of the organization is to provide “[s]afe emergency temporary accommodation where women and children can find refuge from violence in the home.” (Id. at R0006.) The length of stay at the shelter was not expected to exceed six months and the original license was from November 24, 2008, until February 23, 2009. (Id. at R0005, R0007.) Respondent testified that the shelter was not healthy for her or for the child; therefore, she tried to obtain alternative housing. (Tr. 131-32.) In connection with this attempt, she requested a letter from LAWRS to support her application for permanent accommodation. (RX5 at R0034.) The LAWRS letter describes Respondent’s interactions with LAWRS, as discussed supra, and states that Respondent wanted a permanent accommodation to start a new life with more stability because the “unsuitable and overcrowded conditions” of the shelter, with other domestic violence victims under a lot of stress, were hindering the development of both Respondent and the child. (Id. at R0035.) Respondent testified that before she left Petitioner, she would sometimes go to her sister Gloria’s house for the weekend when Respondent and Petitioner had problems; Gloria had a son about the same age as the child and the child and Gloria’s son were friends. (Tr. 174-75.) However, Respondent and the child were only able to see Gloria and her son once while living in the shelter because the shelter did not want Respondent at her family’s homes. (Id. at 175.) On July 3, 2009, Respondent and the child left the United Kingdom, traveling first to France and then to New York, where they have lived since July 8, 2009. (Ct. Ex. 1 ¶¶ A12-14). Petitioner describes a multitude of channels that he pursued in an attempt to find his child and resolve the situation. He contacted the Citizen Advice Bureau in London, where he was referred to Family Mediation; after Family Mediation sent several letters to Respondent without response, Petitioner was referred to solicitors in London. (Tr. 24-25.) On July 23, 2009, Petitioner submitted an application under the Children Act of 1989 (PX1 at Petitioner000030-Petitioner000049), to obtain from a court “a defined contact order to ensure that he obtains regular contact with his [child] and plays an active role in [her] life,” (id. at Petitioner000037). At the same time, Petitioner submitted orders to disclose the child’s whereabouts, under Section 33 of the Family Law Act of 1986, to Respondent’s sisters in London, Respondent’s previous counsel, the police station that Respondent had contacted, the Child Benefit Office, the child’s nursery, and the child’s doctor (id. at Petitioner000050-Petitioner000067); however, they all denied knowledge of Respondent’s and the child’s location, (id. at Petitioner000068-Petitioner000076). After having “exhausted all possibility that [the child] was still in the [United Kingdom],” on March 15, 2010, Petitioner filed a Central Authority for England and Wales Application Form seeking to have the child returned to the United Kingdom; the application was sent to the United States Department of State Office of Children’s Issues on March 23, 2010. (Tr. 33; Ct. Ex. 1 ¶ A15.) The application details more of the steps that Petitioner undertook to find Respondent and the child and indicates that Petitioner believed that Respondent and the child were in Manhattan. (PX1 at Petitioner000005-Petitioner000009.) At the hearing, Petitioner explained that he thought Respondent would bring the child to the United States at some point but he did not know when or how quickly she would be able to do so; therefore, he wanted to first make sure that Respondent and the child were not in the United Kingdom before taking action pursuant to the Hague Convention. (Tr. 90-91.) D. The Child’s Life in New York Since arriving in New York, Respondent and the child have lived with Respondent’s sister Maria, Maria’s partner, Respondent’s niece (Maria’s daughter), and the niece’s two-year-old daughter. (Id. at 144.) Maria has worked as a nanny for the same family for four years; Maria’s partner owns a grocery business. (Id. at 144-45, 169.) Maria financially supports Respondent and the child and, in return, Respondent cooks, cleans, and takes care of the children. (Id. at 145.) Respondent has not had a job since she came to the United States. (Id. at 168.) Because Respondent and the child have British passports, they were allowed to enter the United States without a visa; however, Respondent testified that they are currently overstayed, and have been since October 2009. (Id. at 165-66.) Respondent testified that she is consulting with immigration authorities about the possibility of being sponsored by Maria, who is a United States citizen. (Id. at 150.) The child has attended the same school since she and Respondent arrived in New York and currently is enrolled in kindergarten; according to Respondent, the child is doing very well in school. (Id. at 147.) On the child’s 2009-2010 mid-year prekindergarten Academic Standards Report, the child’s teacher commented that she “is a quiet child who enjoys playing with [her] friends at school[; she] is participating more now and [the school is] encouraging her to write more and develop all skills.” (RX10 at R0045.) On the Academic Standards Report at the end of that school year, the teacher wrote that the child “has made a lot of progress socially [and] is beginning to assert herself more[; she] is progressing academically as well.” (RX11 at R0048.) However, in a March 2010 session with the therapist, Respondent expressed concern that the child’s school had overreacted to the child’s statements regarding the incidents where the child claimed a teacher and student had inappropriately touched and kissed her; the therapist told Respondent that the school might involve Child Protective Services (“CPS”) and that Respondent would need to be compliant, to which Respondent agreed. (PX3 at R0108, R0110.) The following week, Respondent told the therapist that she and the child were interviewed by the school but were not contacted by CPS; however, Respondent was still upset with the school. (Id. at R0112.) Respondent testified that the child has friends at school who she sometimes meets at the park or at the library. (Tr. 148.) The child plays with her cousin’s two-year old daughter with whom they live, and is close with Maria and Maria’s partner. (Id. at 148-49.) Respondent also testified that her other niece also lives nearby with her two children and the child spends time with this extended family, particularly on weekends. (Id. at 149.) Respondent and the child also attend church on the weekends and the child takes ballet classes. {Id. at 150.) After arriving in New York, Respondent and the child began receiving therapy from a psychiatric social worker at a family medical clinic in July 2009. {Id. at 230.) When they first arrived in New York, Respondent testified that the child was very quiet, had nightmares and bedwetting problems, and became “very sexually talking.” {Id. at 145^,6.) At the hearing, the therapist testified that when she first met the child, the child was unable to speak, make eye contact, or play in the therapist’s office, which the therapist characterized as “very unusual for a normally developed three-year-old child”; in addition, the child would wet herself, was hypervigilant, and had a very heightened startle response. {Id. at 233.) In addition, the therapist’s notes from a November 17, 2009 session indicate that the child had been having temper tantrums at home and yelling and slamming doors when she did not get what she wanted; as a result, the therapist sought “to lower [the child’s] anxiety when she’s separated from her mother and decrease [the child’s] aggressive behavior when [her] personal needs are not met.” (PX3 at R0095.) Although the therapist testified that the child showed symptoms of trauma in their initial meeting, she progressed through several diagnoses, including adjustment disorder with anxiety/depression, adjustment disorder with mixed emotional features, adjustment disorder not otherwise specified, undetermined diagnosis, and undiagnosed, before ultimately being diagnosed with PTSD in February 2010; the therapist explained this is often done because a diagnosis such as PTSD can be stigmatizing in children. (Tr. 233-34; PX3 at R0087-R0104.) When asked at the Evidentiary Hearing what traumatic event formed the basis of the PTSD diagnosis, the therapist said it was the child’s experience in the United Kingdom before coming to New York, including living in a shelter system, having to move to a new country, and knowing that her mother had been harmed or threatened because, as the therapist explained, being in the presence of abuse is considered trauma to the child, even if the child herself is not abused. (Tr. 234-35.) The therapist declined to say definitively that the traumatic event was witnessing domestic violence, although she said that could cause the trauma. {Id. at 239.) Respondent testified that within six months of arriving in New York, the child’s behavior improved. {Id. at 146.) The therapist echoed this assessment, describing her as “a completely different child now,” who has stopped wetting herself, has made friends at school, is excited to play, and is able to speak very freely about how she is feeling and talks about being happy. (Id. at 235-36.) In August 2010, Respondent and the therapist decided to terminate therapy because the child was doing well and agreed that they would return if any of the child’s symptoms related to trauma reoccurred. (PX3 at R0120.) In her notes, the therapist indicated that the child was “symptom free, happy, content, [and] normal.” {Id.) However, the child resumed therapy in September 2010 when Respondent and the child again met with the therapist because the child was acting out regarding Respondent’s new boyfriend. (Id. at R0122.) The next week, Respondent informed the therapist that the child was still having problems with wetting herself; the therapist recommended that the child continue therapy until the problem was resolved. (Id. at R0124.) By October 25, 2010, Respondent and the therapist agreed that the child was again symptom free; the child was not wetting herself, “reported ‘being happy’ and was markedly more verbal than during last visits.” (Id. at R0128.) Accordingly, the child would cease therapy, but return if any problems resumed. (Id.) Respondent and the child again resumed meeting with the therapist in December 2010, after the instant Petition was filed. (Id. at R0130.) In January 2011, the therapist noted that the child “expressed she is ‘happy’ in school,” was not wetting herself and, when playing with dolls, “talked about how she was happy like the dolls who got to live in the dollhouse with their cousins.” (Id. at R0134.) Respondent and the therapist determined that the child and Respondent would continue therapy through the duration of the instant proceedings. (Id. at R0135.) E. Possibility of Return to United Kingdom and Expert Evaluations According to Respondent, when she brings up going back to London, the child says “that she’s not going.” (Tr. 147.) Respondent testified that when the child is asked if she wants to see Petitioner, she says “no” and, on four occasions after being asked this question, the child has become encropetic. (Id.) The therapist testified that when she asked the child about Petitioner, she would remain silent and did not want to talk about him. (Id. at 236.) The child also did not talk very much about her time in the United Kingdom in general and did not recall it. (Id.) The therapist’s February 17, 2010 notes state that the child was able to speak for the first time directly with the therapist about missing her father; the notes from that same session also indicate that the child was much more verbal in play "with the therapist (PX3 at R0105), whereas previously she still had been taciturn and communicated by pointing, (id. at R0103.) Although the child had stopped attending therapy by the end of October 2010, Respondent and the child met with the therapist again on December 9, 2010, after the instant Petition had been filed. At this session, the child “stated that she was scared because her ‘mommy seemed so worried.’” (Id. at R0130.) The therapist’s notes from a January 31, 2011 session state that after refraining from asking the child direct questions regarding Petitioner for several months, the therapist did ask the child if she wanted to see her father; the child, outside the presence of Respondent, said “no.” The therapist did not probe the issue further in order to avoid distressing the child. (Id. at R0144.) Respondent’s expert Dr. Cling submitted a report and testified at the Evidentiary Hearing based on her examination of Respondent and the child. Dr. Cling testified that during her evaluation, Respondent told her that Petitioner had abused her and that the child witnessed the abuse. Dr. Cling explained that witnessing domestic abuse is “considered to be abuse in and of itself.” (Tr. 196.) Dr. Cling did not directly observe any symptoms of trauma in the child, but spoke with the therapist regarding the child’s condition when she first arrived in New York. (Id. at 204.) When Dr. Cling met with the child, the child stayed with Respondent but was generally willing to talk, moved readily towards the provided toys, and related well. (Id. at 197-98.) Dr. Cling testified that when she tried to speak with the child about her time in London or Petitioner, the child “had a very bad reaction”; after initially saying in very short answers that she remembered London and Petitioner, the child said she did not want to talk about it and refused to discuss the subject. (Id. at 188-89, 206-07.) Dr. Cling viewed this as the child setting a limit where she felt safe and, therefore, Dr. Cling did not push the child “to an extreme response.” (Id. at 208.) The child did not wet or soil herself when Dr. Cling brought up Petitioner; however, Dr. Cling stated that such a response “would be psychotic behavior” that even a scared five-year-old would not exhibit unless in “extreme distress.” {Id. at 207.) When asked about Respondent’s testimony that the child had exhibited such a response after being asked about Petitioner and returning to London, Dr. Cling clarified that such behavior would have been surprising in the setting of her interview of the child because Dr. Cling did not push her hard, so the child was in a safe situation. {Id. at 207-08.) Dr. Cling testified that if in their meeting the child had been able to speak more about Petitioner — as the child was able to do with Dr. Fraser, when Respondent was not present in the room, as explained infra — it “might soften [her opinion in this case] a little.” {Id. at 211-12.) Dr. Cling concluded the child was “potentially at risk if she were to be forcibly returned to the [United Kingdom] for custody evaluation of another psychological breakdown” and that such a move “could cause serious psychological harm.” {Id. at 190.) Removing the child from her “stable environment in the United States ... might have a catastrophic effect” because, while “it’s not generally good to move children, ... if they have a fragile history, then ... you want to keep them as stable as possible ... [and] more or less doing the same thing,” particularly because here the child would be taken from her present stable, comfortable environment and returned to the site of the trauma. {Id. at 198-99.) This assessment was based on Dr. Cling’s discussion with the therapist, who indicated that the child was in “pretty bad shape” and suffering from PTSD when she arrived in New York, as well as Dr. Cling’s own observation that the child was now a “normal five-year-old” who is doing very well, “with the exception that there was this difficult psychological area” involving Petitioner and London. {Id. at 190-91.) When asked if there were any arrangements in the United Kingdom that could prevent the child’s re-traumatization, Dr. Cling stated that it is “hard to imagine the kind of stable environment that she’s already in existing there,” particularly because the child has been in New York for over a year and a half at a sensitive age. {Id. at 199-200.) However, Dr. Cling did not provide any basis for her belief as to the child’s situation in the United Kingdom. When asked by the Court if traumatization would result from moving the child from her current situation to anywhere, as distinct from moving the child to the United Kingdom under arrangements that would allow her to live with people with whom she might be comfortable, Dr. Cling opined that both situations would contribute to the child suffering trauma. {Id. at 200-01.) When pressed by Petitioner’s counsel, Dr. Cling said she believes it is “very likely” that the child is at risk for another psychological breakdown if returned to the United Kingdom but she cannot predict with certainty what will happen if the child is returned. {Id. at 205-06.) Petitioner’s expert Dr. Fraser also submitted a report, based on his psychological evaluation of Respondent and the child, and testified at the Evidentiary Hearing. Dr. Fraser met with Respondent and the child both together and separately. {Id. at 283; PX2 at Fraser000001.) Dr. Fraser testified that he met with the child one-on-one in order to observe how the child interacted both with and away from Respondent. (Tr. 283.) Dr. Fraser testified that Respondent seemed very appropriately able to care for the child and was very attuned to her needs. {Id. at 260.) Respondent told Dr. Fraser that: Petitioner had raped Respondent four times, twice in the presence of the child; the child had told Respondent in the shelter that Petitioner had touched the child’s genitals; and the child had previously exhibited symptoms such as fearfulness, anxiety, emotionally shutting down, refusing to talk, bed-wetting, and clinging to Respondent. (Id. at 260-61.) Dr. Fraser testified that the child seemed “to be a very well-adjusted, sweet child,” who engaged in very organized, healthy, creative, age-appropriate playing by herself and with Respondent and Dr. Fraser and did not show any distress. (Id. at 265-66, 284.) The child told Dr. Fraser that she loves where she lives and that she likes school. (Id. at 298; PX2 at Fraser000004.) Dr. Fraser had Respondent fill out a trauma symptom checklist for young children for the child’s trauma symptoms during the past month. (Tr. 261-63.) According to Dr. Fraser, Respondent reported extremely high PTSD avoidance and sexual concern symptoms for the child, which were inconsistent with: (1) Dr. Fraser’s own interview with the child, (2) Respondent’s description of the child’s current condition to Dr. Fraser and Dr. Cling, and (3) Respondent’s discussion of the focus of the child’s therapy. (Id. at 264-65; PX2 at Fraser000005-Fraser000007.) Dr. Fraser opined that this discrepancy “calls into question the accuracy and consistency of [Respondent’s] reporting of events,” particularly regarding her claims of potential sexual abuse of the child. (PX2 at Fraser000007.) Respondent testified that in filling out the questionnaire, she forgot that it was only supposed to be for the past month and thought it related to the child’s symptoms upon arrival in New York. (Tr. 151-52.) However, the questionnaire responses indicate that Respondent did answer some of the questions with the past-month time frame in mind; for example, she answered “not at all” to the questions of whether the child looked sad or had nightmares, when those were in fact some of the symptoms for which Respondent had sought therapy for the child upon arrival in New York. (PX2 at Fraser000014-Fraser000015.) Dr. Fraser also had Respondent take a personality test known as the MMPI2. (Tr. 261.) This test has two components: (1) validity scales, which provide information regarding the subject’s test-taking attitude and approach, and (2) clinical scales, which provide information about the individual’s personality style and psychiatric symptoms they may be experiencing. (Id. at 267-69; PX2 at Fraser000003.) Dr. Fraser testified that Respondent’s validity scores indicated that she tended to portray herself in an overly positive light with few shortcomings; people with high scores often “have a difficult time admitting to minor faults that typically most human beings would admit to.” (Tr. 281-82.) According to Dr. Fraser, Respondent’s “unrealistic claims of personal virtue,” “unwilling[ness] to admit faults that might be detrimental to her case,” and “extreme level of defensiveness ... made it difficult to interpret her clinical scores” (PX2 at Fraser000003), and thus called into question the accuracy of the rest of the reported information, (id.; Tr. 281-82.) In contrast, Dr. Cling did not administer any written tests to Respondent or the child because Dr. Cling believes that the MMPI-2 is often invalid in custody evaluations because “[p]eople who are undergoing custody evaluations have a very strong, perhaps uncontrollable, urge to present themselves in a very positive light.” (Tr. 221.) However, Dr. Cling acknowledges that this test is very often given in custody disputes. (Id. at 226.) Dr. Fraser testified that the child did not exhibit any traumatized or sexualized behavior in his presence, nor did she show any signs of incontinence. (Id. at 284-86.) When he brought up Petitioner, the child was able to answer questions regarding her father while continuing to play with a dollhouse and did not seem frightened of her father. (Id. at 284-85.) When asked how she feels about being away from Petitioner, the child replied “happy; I’m staying with my mommy.” (Id. at 297-98.) The child was also able to talk about living in the United Kingdom without being afraid. When Dr. Fraser asked the child if she remembered the United Kingdom with her mother and father, the child said that she played with toys; at that point, she did not want to talk anymore and said she was hungry. (Id. at 286.) Dr. Cling categorized the child saying she was hungry as avoidance behavior to get out of talking about Petitioner (id. at 225); however, according to Respondent, after speaking with Dr. Fraser, Respondent actually did take the child to McDonald’s to get something to eat before returning to Dr. Fraser’s office to complete the MMPI2 questionnaire, (id. at 154). Respondent testified that when she took the child to McDonald’s, the child did not want to go back to the office and said that Dr. Fraser made her think a toy was her father, that she killed the toy, and there was “blood all around.” (Id.) However, Dr. Fraser testified that the child did not identify any of the dolls or toys as representing her father, nor discuss her father in an aggressive way. (Id. at 267, 297.) Dr. Fraser agreed with Dr. Cling that “ ‘it is impossible to say what trauma [the child] was reacting to’ ” when she exhibited trauma symptoms upon arriving in New York, particularly without investigation into Respondent’s claims that Petitioner may have sexually abused the child. (PX2 at Fraser000006.) He believes that several of the child’s reported symptoms, such as bed-wetting, excessive clinging to her mother, and avoiding talking about her father, “could also have been reactions to several types of other traumas,” such as being uprooted from her home and her father to live in a shelter while in the United Kingdom and then being uprooted from the United Kingdom to move to the United States, still away from her father. (Id.) Dr. Fraser acknowledged that given “the level of disruption and stress” in the child’s life over the past couple of years, the child “is at increased risk for some degree of psychological maladjustment if she is required to move again; but the potential negative effects depend on many factors.” (Id. at Fraser000007.) However, he opined that returning to the United Kingdom would not put the child at a grave risk of harm (id.), and that, based on his observations of the child, her answers to his questions, and the description of her symptoms from other sources, he did not think that the child would be traumatized, or that it would be a problem, for the child to return to the United Kingdom for the purposes of conducting a custody hearing. (Tr. 287-88.) In his report, Dr. Fraser did state that if the child was told that returning to the United Kingdom meant going back to her father, she “may react by regressing” and showing previous symptoms; however, Dr. Fraser believes there are “other, more positive ways” to frame moving back to the United Kingdom to the child. (PX2 at Fraser000007; Tr. 304.) When asked if the child would suffer trauma if she was returned to Petitioner, Dr. Fraser cautioned that whenever allegations of abuse have been made, he believes “all efforts need be made to investigate the validity, the accuracy of those allegations prior to returning any child to that home.” (Tr. 303.) III. Conclusions of Law A. General Principles The Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of International Child Abduction, as implemented through ICARA, was created with the stated purpose “to protect children internationally from the harmful effects of their wrongful removal or retention and to establish procedures to ensure their prompt return to the State of their habitual residence, as well as to secure protection for rights of access.” Hague Convention, pmbl., reprinted in 51 Fed. Reg. 10,495, at 10,498. The Hague Convention was designed to restore the preretention status quo and to discourage parents from crossing international borders in search of a more sympathetic forum. See Gitter v. Gitter, 396 F.3d 124, 129-30 (2d Cir.2005) (citing Paul R. Beaumont & Peter E. McEleavy, The Hague Convention on International Child Abduction 1-3 (1999)). To dissuade family members from removing children to jurisdictions perceived to be more favorable to their custody claims, the Hague Convention attempts “to deprive [their] actions of any practical or juridical consequences.” Id. at 130 (quoting Elisa Perez-Vera, Hague Convention on the Civil Aspects of Int’l Child Abduction: Explanatory Report, ¶ 16, in 3 Acts and Documents of the 14th Session (1982) (“Perez-VeraReport”)). A court considering a Hague Convention petition has jurisdiction only over the wrongful removal or retention claim. See Hague Convention, art. 16, reprinted in 51 Fed.Reg. 10,495, at 10,500; 42 U.S.C. § 11601(b)(4); Diorinou v. Mezitis, 237 F.3d 133, 140 (2d Cir.2001). The merits of any underlying custody claim are of no concern in a Hague Convention case. See Blondin v. Dubois, 189 F.3d 240, 245 (2d Cir.1999) (“Blondin II ”) (citing Friedrich v. Friedrich, 983 F.2d 1396, 1400 (6th Cir.1993) (“Friedrich I ”)); see also Hague Convention, art. 19, reprinted in 51 Fed. Reg. 10,495, at 10,500. “Put differently, the focus of a court’s inquiry in a Hague Convention case is not ‘the best interests of the child,’ as it typically is in a state custody case; rather it is the specific claims and defenses under the Convention, namely whether a child has been wrongfully removed to, or retained in, a country different from the child’s habitual residence and, if so, whether any of the Convention’s defenses apply to bar the child’s return to his habitual residence.” Hazbun Escaf v. Rodriquez, 200 F.Supp.2d 603, 610-11 (E.D.Va.2002), aff'd sub nom. Escaf v. Rodriguez, 52 Fed.Appx. 207 (4th Cir.2002). The United States has implemented the provisions of the Hague Convention through ICARA. See Abbott v. Abbott, — U.S.-, 130 S.Ct. 1983, 1989, 176 L.Ed.2d 789 (2010). ICARA allocates the burdens of proof for various claims and defenses under the Convention. See 42 U.S.C. §§ 11601-11611; Koc v. Koc, 181 F.Supp.2d 136, 146 (E.D.N.Y.2001). Specifically, ICARA requires that a petitioner establish, by a preponderance of the evidence, that the child whose return is sought has been “wrongfully removed or retained within the meaning of the Convention.” 42 U.S.C. § 11603(e)(1)(A). In this respect, the Convention reflects “a strong presumption favoring return of a wrongfully removed child.” Danaipour v. McLarey, 286 F.3d 1, 13 (1st Cir.2002). If a petitioner makes out a prima facie case of wrongful removal or retention, the court must return the child unless the respondent can establish one of the Convention’s enumerated defenses. See Hazbun Escaf, 200 F.Supp.2d at 611. The presumption favors return because “[requiring a return remedy in cases [brought under the Convention] helps deter child abductions and respects the Convention’s purpose to prevent harms resulting from abductions.” Abbott, 130 S.Ct. at 1996. As the Supreme Court has explained, such abductions are traumatic for children and are considered by some child psychologists to be “one of the worst forms of child abuse”; as a result of an abduction, the child may experience depression, PTSD, identity-formation issues, or other psychological problems, and may be prevented “from forming a relationship with the left-behind parent.” Id. (internal quotation marks omitted). To establish a prima facie case of wrongful retention under the Hague Convention, a petitioner must show by a preponderance of the evidence that: (1) the habitual residence of the child immediately before the date of the alleged wrongful retention was in a foreign country; (2) the retention is in breach of custody rights under the foreign country’s law; and (3) the petitioner was exercising custody rights at the time of the alleged wrongful retention. See 42 U.S.C. § 11603(e)(1)(A); Gitter, 396 F.3d at 130-31. If the petitioner satisfies this burden, then the child must be returned to his or her state of habitual residence unless the respondent can establish one of the following affirmative defenses: (1) the proceeding was commenced more than one year after the removal of the child and the child has become settled in his or her new environment (the “settled defense” or “Article 12 defense”); (2) the person seeking return of the child was not actually exercising custody rights at the time of the removal or retention, or had consented to or subsequently acquiesced in the removal or retention; (3) there is a grave risk that the return of the child would expose it to physical or psychological harm (the “grave risk defense”); or (4) the return of the child would not be permitted under the fundamental principles of the requested State relating to the protection of human rights and fundamental freedoms. See Blondín II, 189 F.3d at 245^46. The first two affirmative defenses require proof by a preponderance of the evidence, while the latter two affirmative defenses require clear and convincing evidence. See id. However, as is clear from ICARA, these affirmative defenses are meant to be narrow. See id. at 246 (citing 42 U.S.C. § 11601(a)(4)). Indeed, these defenses “do not authorize a court to exceed its Hague Convention function by making determinations, such as who is the better parent, that remain within the purview of the court with plenary jurisdiction over the question of custody.” Id.-, see also Nunez-Escudero v. Tice-Menley, 58 F.3d 374, 377 (8th Cir.1995) (“It is not relevant to this Convention exception [the “grave risk defense”] who is the better parent in the long run ____”). To view the defenses more broadly would frustrate the core purpose of the Hague Convention — to preserve the status quo and deter parents from seeking custody of their child through, in effect, forum shopping. See Perez-Vera Report, supra, ¶ 34. Moreover, “[e]ven where the respondent meets his or her burden to show that an exception applies, the court may nevertheless exercise discretion to order repatriation.” Matovski v. Matovski, No. 06-CV-4259, 2007 WL 2600862, at *7 (S.D.N.Y. Aug. 31, 2007); see also Blondin II, 189 F.3d at 246 n. 4 (“[E]ven where the grounds for one of these ‘narrow’ exceptions have been established, the district court is not necessarily bound to allow the child to remain with the abducting parent.”); Friedrich v. Friedrich, 78 F.3d 1060, 1067 (6th Cir.1996) (“Friedrich II”) (“[A] federal court retains, and should use when appropriate, the discretion to return a child, despite the existence of a defense, if return would further the aims of the Convention.”). B. The Prima Facie Case of Wrongful Retention In the instant matter, Petitioner has adequately established a prima facie case of wrongful retention under the Hague Convention. Indeed, as Petitioner points out, Respondent has not attempted to argue otherwise. (Post-Hearing Mem. of Law in Supp. of Pet. for Return of Child (“Pet’r Mem.”) 5.) 1. The Habitual Residence Petitioner can invoke the protection of the Hague Convention only if the subject child is “habitually resident” in a State signatory to the Convention and has been removed to or retained in a different State. See Holder v. Holder, 392 F.3d 1009, 1014 (9th Cir.2004); Diaz Arboleda v. Arenas, 311 F.Supp.2d 336, 341 (E.D.N.Y.2004). The Hague Convention itself does not provide any definition of “habitually resident.” See Gitter, 396 F.3d at 131; Perez-Vera Repent, supra ¶ 53 (“Following a long-established tradition of the Hague Conference, the Convention avoided defining its terms .... ”). However, its text does direct courts to the time “immediately before the removal or retention.” Hague Convention, art. 3, reprinted in 51 Fed.Reg. 10,495, at 10,498. In focusing on the pre-retention period, the relevant inquiry is the shared intention of those responsible for fixing the child’s place of residence, which typically will be the child’s parents. See Gitter, 396 F.3d at 132. However, the Court may also look to other factors in determining the child’s habitual residence. See id. at 133-34. Here, the Court concludes that the child was a habitual resident of the United Kingdom. The child resided there from its birth until Respondent and the child left on July 3, 2009; thus, at the time immediately before the removal, the child resided in the United Kingdom. 2. Removal in Breach of Custody Rights Under Foreign Law Under the Convention, “rights of custody” may arise, inter alia, by operation of law, see Hague Convention, art. 3, and “shall include rights relating to the care of the person of the child and, in particular, the right to determine the child’s place of residence,” id., art. 5(a), reprinted in 51 Fed.Reg. 10,495, at 10,498.